Quickly coming up on the 5 month mark and not much to report. Things are going pretty well for me outside of the sitch. GAL has been in overdrive with lots of dinners and gatherings with friends, fishing, working out and messing with some of my hobbies. I have taken a break from IC for a bit as advised by the therapist. She is very happy with my progress and the changes I have made and suggested just some check in appointments down the road to make sure I am still on track. I am 90% back to my old happy confidant self and everyone around me has taken notice.
As far as S goes there is still absolutely zero progress. There is still no official parenting plan, still no discussions around financials and still no plan about the house. I do not like the feeling of being trapped but unfortunately until she is willing to deal with things there isn't much I can do. I try to get her to discuss things and sit down with me to go at least bounce some ideas off each other but every time I get the same reply, "we will figure it out". Umm ya, that's exactly what I'm attempting to do. It's bizarre to me that W seems to have no plan whatsoever to actually move on with her life. I probably shouldn't have but the other night I point blank asked her why "If you were so miserable in our marriage and I supposedly made you so unhappy and held you back so much then why are you still here and not moving forward with sorting things out?" I did not get a response.
