I also think part of it is letting go......after a D all of us have built some walls up around us. Probably more than we realize with all the self talk, alpha male, red pill, etc.

It's not easy being vulnerable again.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018