Wayne would say as she starts to pursue more back off on your pursuit. She is doing more but I would not call it consistent. I actually think me reciprocating when she does initiate helps me but I am still not gushing my feelings all over her, texting every 2 hours, talking about R or future plans either. Our texting is actually pretty short in nature maybe 3 or 4 messages back and forth at the most with Sunday being a little longer. So i am reaching out a little more but it is certainly not multiple times a day giving a description of my every move.

The sex is really good and it is cool that she lives so close that I can swing over mid week for some fun. I do keep telling myself to just have fun and go with it.....I am still very much a work in progress on that front. I have definitely opened her up sexually and she is starting to share her feelings with me. She is a catch, maybe a Unicorn but me taking it slow is important to me. I dont feel any R pressure from her so I know I have more time to get comfortable.

I just need to stay in the moment


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018