Gerda

You need some good IRL counsel

This is too complicated to give you real advice about custody

Remember this

Court knows very little about your situation

Judge cares for safety of children

Judge does not care who is a good or bad parent

Assuming your H is not a convicted child abuser

Judge will appoint him some custody

Including overnights and vacations

Unless you are able to prove to the court that he is unfit for any overnights this is going to happen

I know you do not want it to happen

Pray for guidance

Get good counsel

Be the best Gerda in court and out of court


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving