We have to get it done by Feb 15 or will have to pay 10K for a GAL and there is obviously no money for that. And GAL may recommend more time.
And the part that I hated was he wanted to take them for a whole week in summer and for every other holiday. He has not made a holiday for the kids in years and they will hate both of those things. And yes, I feel like I will die of terror if he has them for that long, and the thought of me being all alone on a holiday is killing me. I invite him to every single holiday and he rarely shows up. But he is okay leaving me all alone without my kids and them without me, all for an idea he has that is not based on what our lives have been for my D's entire life since babyhood and or most of my S's life == after it has been me and only me all these years. That really does kill me despite what I put on other peoples' threads about trust, hope, etc.
Last edited by Gerda; 02/13/1901:13 PM.
I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord with courage. Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.
