The real question is how do you (WE) get him to that point?


TAOS is one tool for you. It has been a long time since I read it, but it is full of counter intuitive things for you to consider.


It is one big cha-cha dance. You pull away, he purses. You just can't pull too far away. or he says F it.

I am going to say this again. You have to make this fun. For you and for him.

He has to "Feel" that he is loosing you.

What is going on for V-day?


What are your thoughts on this:
W:"H, I know things are not looking good right now, but I would like to know what you are planning for VD."

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712