Still in limbo

[ovrrnbw]

If you don't make him work he will not have any respect for you.

I'm just going to say this again b/c I've lived on the wrong end of this and thought "oh boy, we're back!!!", as in my W and I are back together and working on this marriage. It can't be said enough.

I've been through several times. It's one of those things I look back on and wonder why I didn't put my foot down right away.