Into the Fire (LB55 thread 2)

[LB55]

This is all still one big negotiation. Can you get a transcript of the court hearing? You can review it and compare to the draft of the temp orders. People make mistakes. (sometimes on purpose).

I don’t know if I can get a copy of the transcripts or not. I would say probably. Today is day 8 and her L has not drafted the temp orders yet. She is under the impression that they have already been filed and I should request a copy from the court. My L is very insistent that they are not able to be filed until both parties are in agreement. This sounds logical to me.

I will ask my L if that’s possible. I am 100% positive the judge said that mid weeks are fine and I was confirming with my L in my statement above.

I have ruminated on the various statements above while I was driving this morning. You are right and I need to let the legal papers do the talking right now. She wants no negotiations outside of the court orders, I will not negotiate about the financial stuff she wants.

I will give her a quick reply when she asks about it: W, In compliance with your requests that no negotiations take place between us outside of court orders, and the court orders do not address our plans to sell investments to pay bills, I am unable to discuss a plan to sell investments to pay for bills. Please consult with your L and draft up your proposal for review by my L. Regards, H”

Does that work?