I think everything that happened this weekend is a step in the right direction.
I agree. One step.
This is one baby step in the right direction. I believe HIM recommending MC is another sign things are headed in the right direction. How many steps away is this? Are there other steps you can look for between?
I agree that you should make It clear there is a short window of opportunity.
Ready2Change,my friend, he didn’t recommend marriage counseling (unless MC stands for something else). Lol, I wish! My posts are so lengthy that maybe you thought you read that. He agrees that we both dropped the ball and wonders if we can fix our issues. He agrees that we took each other for granted. He agrees that neither one of us truly worked on the M. He agrees that he should have been more vocal about the issues he had with me, etc.
There are lots of steps we both can take to improve our M. I’m working on mine. The balls in his court if he works on his. Either way it goes my plan is to become a better person and the best version of myself.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
