I think this is one of those times to remember that when those icky close feelings come for them, they want to distance. Also, she is disordered in her personal relationships and likely wants you to chase her. I would view this as nothing more than a part of the process, don't take it personally, and get back to DBing like a champ until she pulls her head out of her you know what. You are bigger than this. You have survived worse. DB, DB, DB!!!