Originally Posted by LH19
Wow your response was perfect!

I wish everyone picked up DB is quick as you did it would make my life much more fulfilling lol!


Lol! Thanks! I’m a work in progress.

Don’t give me credit too fast. I’ve been a hot mess. Lol!

Truth is I didn’t pick up DB quickly. He11, I’m re-reading DR. I’ve ordered 2 more books on relationships. I’ve made a lot of mistakes. But when your M is in trouble and you don’t want a D, you sometimes let your emotions get the best of you. I’m also a very impatient person. That’s another thing I need to work on.

I feel like I’ve done a lot of finger pointing at my H in regards to our marital problems. However there’s some blame to go around for me as well.

I told my H that he killed our M. Truth is we killed it together. Now is it truly dead? Perhaps it’s on life support and can be brought back to life. Maybe not. Time will tell. I’m just determined that no matter what happens I wlll be a better person because of all of this. Because I’m doing the work on me!


Original BD: 10/26/2017
PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017
Second BD: 09/15/2018
Currently: IHS
M: 42 H: 45
S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together