I guess Im a little confused. Are you planning to go through with mediation? My understanding is that the process requires both parties to come to the table and discuss and agree on terms. If thats not what youre planning, then why agree to it? Is there anything you need to fight for?
I am not going to stop her for what she believes is best - but I also don't plan on helping her file and get the ball rolling. (She is in this crazy WW state of mind and ideally wakes up from fog before she tears the family apart -- but I understand that is not realistic at this point). From what she has said (she doesnt want my money, kids will be 50/50, etc) mediator route is easiest/fastest in her mind. I definitely don't want a long financial battle, and she def does not either.
But the specifics of who is moving out, how we are dealing with kids after school/weekend schedules etc is something I am interested to see her provide.
If I am not happy with what she first draws up, yes, I will fight.
