Hi Nicole!

I'm glad to hear you are at least considering the possibility of putting yourself out there more. Keep pushing the boundaries of your comfort zone and you will find yourself growing in unexpected ways!

In terms of OLD the man that you are describing sounds very interested in you. I have never sent a picture of myself or done a video chat with anyone, and I have been on dozens of dates in the last three months. The lack of contact for a while can be a number of things as others have said. It could be that he was/is seeing other people and wanted to see where that was going. It could also be that life gets in the way especially for those of us who are older and have more established careers or family obligations. Personally, getting off the computer and meeting IRL as soon as possible is the key to not wasting time. Five minutes with a person can tell you more than weeks of messaging, and can save you a lot of time and energy.


W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019