That’s a tough conversation to listen to. Dig deep, remain calm, and be patient.
Of course you feel terrible. That was terrible. I do feel for you. (((Gordie)))
Remember it is still about her. She has just shared a very traumatic event with you (there may be more than one), that has to stir some stuff up from within her. She still is figuring it all out.
Be that lighthouse, keep guiding her by being you and living well. She will follow when she is ready and able.
It is good that she is speaking to you, and telling you her feelings. They’re just feelings, they seem real to her right now, today. They will change. She is processing her feelings, and that is a very good thing.
Be patient, she has a lot of work to get her cars lined up.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
