W unexpectedly initiated a R talk

How she is unhappy with me

How she wants more than I can give her

How we are just friends

How she is not sexually attracted to me

How I only think about me

How I want her to be the person she used to be

Why we are religously incompatible

I did my best to listen and validate

I feel terrible

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving