Happy Belated Birthday Hamburg. I’m a February baby too. My birthday is on Friday.
Bringing your W groceries and a gift card was a very classy thing to do. Sorry to hear about your kids. Kids really are the biggest losers in all of this and the only ones who don’t get to make any decisions until they are old enough. My kids left with their dad on Saturday morning and I won’t see them until Tuesday after work. I hate being away from them this much. I have to say that it is VERY hard not to be mad at my H for doing this to us. I told him before we started trying to have kids that “this was it”... that I didn’t believe in divorce with kids and that it would be the absolute LAST resort unless all other avenues have been tried and that if he didn’t think that, we shouldn’t have them. He agreed with me but I think he must have been crossing his fingers behind his back because for him, it was the first option. I made the mistake of thinking that his values and beliefs were similar to mine but I was sadly mistaken. Anyway... clearly you are a stand up guy who has a strong value system. FWIIW... I think this A with the OM will fizzle out soon if it hasn’t already. I think your W will regret her choices in the near future and you will then have some choices to make of your own. (((HUGS)))
