Into the Fire (LB55 thread 2)

[LB55]

I don’t know if it was the right time to do it, it I threw a truth dart at W tonight.

She went on and on via email about how she had to buy a new bedroom set and new living room furniture in order to ensure that I was happy and W didn’t have to sleep on the floor and that the kids had a place to sit. She moved the old furniture out to storage In order to help me get access to it at my convenience when I got my new place. This is to help me get settled.

I couldn’t take it anymore.

I replied “W, it was your choice to buy new furniture, it was your choice to move the old stuff out, it was your choice to select thing things that make me happy without asking what made me happy, and you put it in-storage to be convenient to me without asking if that would be convenient for me. None of these things were done to help me in any way, please stop using that narrative to justify your choices and actions. Regards, H”

I didn’t go so far as to say the divorce is her choice, she might pick up on it or she might not. This crap about her doing all of this to help me is nonsense. It’s to make her feel less guilty while getting what she wants.