A familiar story with questions NINE

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Sounds like you took offense to me calling you out on that. Ask yourself why that offends you. You say you are direct but then you want to tell her you had a dream about having sex with her, which is very indirect and in fact not even true. So you want to lie to her to... what? What is it you're hoping to accomplish? You're going about it the wrong way.

No offense take. I was merely trying to correct your assumption. I want to be understood, not misunderstood. So no offense. In the event that you really want to know what I am doing. Allow me to explain.

I've thought about just sending a text saying "I dreamt we had sex last night." I know it sounds lame and yes I picked "sex over "made love" intentionally for reasons explained above. Just to see the response.

First, I said I thought about it. Not that I did it or that I planned to do it. My gosh, slow down and try to understand buddy.
The thought behind it at the time was instead of a touch-charge that I would do the equivalent via text.
One thing you said did stand out. You are right, it is a lie and that's not my style. So I will not do that unless I do have that dream.
I brought it here to get feedback. That's why most of us bring stuff here before we do it.

So you think I'm boasting? I'm just trying to help you friend. This is an area that you are struggling with and I've never had a problem with, but you can take or leave the advice, that's up to you.

Did you see the emoji at the end of my statement? I was teasing you. You seemed to feel the need to expand and I felt you deserved it. Just kidding. All in fun.

I hope this is taken the right way. I know you want to help and I appreciate it. But we must all try to understand we don't all suffer NGS. Sometimes questions or reading back is necessary to understand why we do or even consider doing what we do.