Thank you both for your thoughts and guidance.

I have consulted with my L and she says the mid week visits are definitely a thing the judge said.

I am waiting for her L to type up the temp orders and submit them for review. They haven't been filed with the court, contrary to W thinking.

My L says we will get the opportunity to review and submit our inputs and corrections before filing the final draft.

My L gave a couple good lines I will keep using. "I see we disagree on this topic; please contact Mr. Xlawyer (her L)to alleviate your concerns." This puts the onus on her to push everything.

My last two emails have simply said 'thank you for your reply, my lawyers and I are standing by to review the temp orders when Mr. Xlawyer has finished the draft for you.'

Latest excuse from W...I saw a truck with 4wd stuck yesterday; not sure it's safe for you to be driving around. Not sure the visit with the kids can be done because of my concerns about others driving ability.' I just replied thank you, I am acutely aware of local road conditions and safe driving techniques.


Me40; W38; S12; D9
BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18
D Final 7/2020
Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.