I had couple questions regarding texting. My wife texts me when " she will be back later" which means that she is seeing 3rd party. At first I used to respond OK, but know i feel this is just enabling her as well. Like yesterday, about 10 pm on she sent another text message that she will be back this morning. Should I just ignore that ? should I send something back? Yesterday I responded to her 2 month left 1 d penalty. I think this is just almost anger in me talking. Today I said you can ignore this message because I was sleeping.
Today I asked her if she wanted to go to see a therapist as I was seeing one for 3 weeks already. She said no, which did not surprise me, I just said ok. By the way, we had signed a separation agreement couple weeks ago, which I initiated as I said I do not trust 3rd party and he might influence her I said this is for my own protection.