Yes, I have seen someone go to the home of a parent who has children during their weeks of visitation. Sometimes, it is best to have someone stop by to see if the home is clean, the children are clean and well taken care of. This should not affect your children at all. If anything, it would put your h on the spot to make sure his plan is clean, etc. BTW, the person that I know that was doing the visiting, did not go at the same time, nor or the same day as they were classified as pop in visits.
It kept the parent on his/her toes and they made sure the home was spotless, nothing lying around, dishes washed, etc. and the other parent didn't have to worry about the welfare of the children.
But that could be something the court may order because of your concerns...it all depends on how well your concerns are represented in court.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
