I sent W a strongly worded email on Saturday about mid week visits and that they need to happen...we can work out the schedule.
She replied that mid week visits were not an options rom the court.
I replied that they were; that I recognize my strongly worded email could have been taken the wrong way, and that we need to work better together as a good example for the kids. More words than that, but that was the point.
LB, I really do feel for you, this stuff is difficult enough without dealing with an adversarial spouse! My suggestion would be to back off on the mid-week visits discussions for now, wait until you have the court order in your hands and can read it and see exactly what it says. Hopefully it is in there, if so you can quote her the relevant passage and tell her you would like to make arrangements to begin those additional visits. If it's not in there then you'll have to talk to your L, because clearly your W isn't going to give you ANYTHING out of the "goodness" of her cold, black, dead heart.
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Says the court will decide when I get to see the kids, because that's in their best interests. I SOOO want to replay "W, no that is in YOUR best interest".
Glad you didn't send that. I know it's got to be very tempting but these are the times you need to take the moral high road. Let her wallow in the mud by herself.
I'm still blown away at how this seemingly came out of nowhere, I mean it does for just about all of us but wow she is so full of anger and vindictiveness apparently without reason.
