Of all places, where I found W, which I know is ironic given my sitch.
What helped me was a specific website to help filter out women who weren’t likely to be my type anyway. (I used Catholic Match, which is where I met her—also ironic, I’m sure.) I went to a site like that where it was more likely I’d find good, honest, straight-forward women with good moral standards. It’s up to you, though, for whatever you do next.