the online dating thing I have seen a lot of with my friends. People seem to find it easy to be horrible to each other on there. If I was going to do it, I'd be simple and straightforward. For you, why not just say good woman looking for an honest, straightforward man with high moral standards. You don't have to play the sexting games and endless text messages. You can decide how to do the dating thing. Thinning the herd isn't a bad thing here IMO.
Your H wanting to come is strange. It's good that he wants to be a part of her life, even if it's just for a day. I guess let him come but no expectations, right?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
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