...what it is that changes so suddenly in these women.... I cant.wrap.brain.around.it.
The woman didn't change. Your awareness changed.
That's definitely true to a point!
What makes you think anything was sudden? In most of these cases, the hurt and rejection that the WS has felt for many years finally culminates in a decision to walkaway....or to start an affair. Its just that you havent noticed it until it's reached this point. Ive posted that to me, it feels like a lake freezing upward - over the years, the water is turning to ice, but you dont notice it until that top layer changes....at that point, the whole lake is solid, but you may have only just noticed the change because it was all under the surface.
