No offense. You read a lot into other's words. Like I said, if you read back you will understand why.
Again, it's not about the sex. Read back if you really want to help.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.