That's so mean of her. It's totally ok to just feel terrible for a while because your situation is hard either way. If you give in to her it's like giving her the green light to keep manipulating you and taking advantage of you. If you don't give in she says she wants a divorce and tries to make you miserable. You know throughout all this that your wife is emotionally unstable. If you move out for a while and let her calm down she'll probably back off from the divorce talk but you'll still have to navigate a way forward. For your lease could you explain that you need another week or two? You're smart and if you sit and think rationally after regaining your composure it may be easier to weigh your pros and cons. No matter what you know that you have many supporters here who are happy to talk and listen any time.
