My W uses the term "the last straw" so anything I do she doesn't agree with will be the last straw.
I know I am at fault for some failings but damn that is a crazy way to look at a marriage as if anything I do will give her reason to give up, to run to OM, to blame it all on me.
We don't deserve to live like that. No matter how much we give for them to take , they will not see it. Not like this.
IMO, just from observing behavior here, two things hold LBS back and that's guilt and insecurities. Those two things cause us to hold on for way too long.
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current
