I've never had a problem with being direct, nor pouting about the outcome, and bac,k in my threads I shared the results of just telling her what I want.
Sounds like you took offense to me calling you out on that. Ask yourself why that offends you. You say you are direct but then you want to tell her you had a dream about having sex with her, which is very indirect and in fact not even true. So you want to lie to her to... what? What is it you're hoping to accomplish? You're going about it the wrong way.
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Glad your R is hot and steamy. Sounds like you take the credit. whistle
So you think I'm boasting? I'm just trying to help you friend. This is an area that you are struggling with and I've never had a problem with, but you can take or leave the advice, that's up to you.
You might look into Michele's "The Sex-Starved Marriage" book, it could probably help you with your sitch.
