A familiar story with questions NINE

[RR17]

I wouldn't go the "dream" angle, sounds too passive to me. Just tell her what you want. If you want sex then tell her. If she says she's not ready then try not to act like a puppy dog that didn't get a treat for begging, just ask her what her issues are with it and what you can do to alleviate that. Pick the right time though, maybe over a nice dinner.

AnotherStander, I know you follow a lot of threads. So it's hard to remember everyone sitch.

I've never had a problem with being direct, nor pouting about the outcome, and bac,k in my threads I shared the results of just telling her what I want.
Glad your R is hot and steamy. Sounds like you take the credit.

I've also explained that this is not about just getting my W in the sack.