Gerda,

Your H sounds a lot like my W

Unfortunately the court won't care about the last 5yrs

I remember stating how W walk out. And that bit me in the a*&
All they see is Now...

Yelp now, I also told them how W monster less then 2 months ago
I was told present let's focus on Now.

So one thing I can say they bring up the past.

You amd I are in very similar. What I done was prepared my kids.
And reassure them am here for them as I know they will never be kids.

I am now in a place of self healing, I know I did everything I could do.
I might not have the trio's full time but the trio's are together they will never
be separated. So try to find the positive, it's taken me months to do this
But God has bigger plans.

Stay strong my friend


At BD
Lesbian marriage
Me39,W36
S9,D9,S8 adopted all three
Together almost 10yrs
Bomb Drop - April 2017
W movedout - May,2017
OW June,2017
Currently 2018
Me40, W38
S10,D10,S9