Well she is serious now about divorce. Says me cancelling plans with her after finding out what she was doing Saturday was me punishing her. I told her I didn't do it to punish her but she is adamant that it was a punishment so I just validated that. I talked to her on the phone for way too long this morning. She wants to know if I'm going to "dodge her" and not be home to discuss divorce stuff. I told her today if she wants a divorce then I don't have to talk to her ever again.

I think I'm going to look for an extended stay hotel at least for now. I'm just all messed up over this. She doesn't care that she crossed my boundary b/c she was so patient with me.

And I need her signature on the lease for my office. Why didn't I get that Friday. God I don't know what to do there either.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.