I'm glad she reached out to you, and also her father is showing you his continued love and support-
The kids can see her unavailability and it may be best for them to be with you- She may also be willing to let them go- Mlcers are usually poor parents, and may be grateful for their freedom with some visitation rights Only you will know what is best for everyone-
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