Any friends that can temp watch dog? Anyway to live someplace that allows dogs?
not really an option. So i would be livin in apt working at the retirement home. So this location doesn't allowe doggies unfortunately . I can't leave her behind. The w didn't want her anymore and told me to take her when i left , even though its her original dog . I cannot leave her behind too not happening. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
I could tell by the way you kissed my lips that day There was something missing, something not the same You were there, but you weren’t, didn’t care, didn’t hurt at all Said it was what it was, then the feeling of us was gone I watched you fade away But I turned my head and closed my eyes And prayed you’d stay And I told myself that it’d be fine I wish I could have just said somethin’, oh When you said you needed time I heard goodbye Goodbye It was way too easy to say those words you said And the look on your face, I could tell there was nothin’ left Almost wished we were fightin’, screamin’, and cryin’, but Not a drop of a tear, didn’t know how to feel, I was numb When I watched you fade away And I turned my head and closed my eyes And prayed you’d stay And I told myself that it’d be fine I wish I could have just said somethin’, oh When you said you needed time I heard goodbye Goodbye I could try to hold on if I thought I could change your mind But I don’t think I can when I feel like I feel tonight I watched you fade away But I turned my head and closed my eyes And prayed you’d stay And I told myself that it’d be fine I wish I could have just said somethin’, oh When you said you needed time When you said you needed time I heard goodbye
got a email tonight from w. we have pretty much had about nc as possible going on 4 weeks now... says she misses the dog , not me just the dog apparently . That she feels bad for abandoning the dog, again only the dog. She wanted to know why she hasn't heard from me.
got a email tonight from w. we have pretty much had about nc as possible going on 4 weeks now... says she misses the dog , not me just the dog apparently . That she feels bad for abandoning the dog, again only the dog. She wanted to know why she hasn't heard from me.
I didn't respond yet.
Tell her you have been busy attending couples therapy with the dog to address abandonment issues.
Joking of course.
Believe none of what they say.
Me40; W38; S12; D9 BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18 D Final 7/2020 Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.
got a email tonight from w. we have pretty much had about nc as possible going on 4 weeks now... says she misses the dog , not me just the dog apparently . That she feels bad for abandoning the dog, again only the dog. She wanted to know why she hasn't heard from me.
I didn't respond yet.
Tell her you have been busy attending couples therapy with the dog to address abandonment issues.
Joking of course.
Believe none of what they say.
LMAO now thats a good one ....... she also went on to say " we can communicate more if that is what you want "
Communicate if you desire. Believe none of what they say. Be careful and definitely ask if you are thinking of rashly responding to something. Many dumb decisions have been prevented by the smart folks here.
Me40; W38; S12; D9 BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18 D Final 7/2020 Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.
got a email tonight from w. we have pretty much had about nc as possible going on 4 weeks now... says she misses the dog , not me just the dog apparently . That she feels bad for abandoning the dog, again only the dog. She wanted to know why she hasn't heard from me.
I didn't respond yet.
Wait an hour. Then respond:
H:"W, I just saw your text. Funny you ask, the dog and I were out for a walk. He is doing fine. No need to feel bad."
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