Every free minute you have, work on your personal growth. Work on being attractive. Alpha male stuff. Listening skills. Communication skills. Relationship skills. Social skills.
Take care of things. Turn on some good music. Make your Bedroom awesome. Go shoping for new clothes. You don't have to buy any. Get fitted with new suit. know your size. Wait for it to go on sale.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712