Confusion is my middle name...

[Pax_luv]

Coly, ditto what Ginger said. Please protect yourself.

My biggest regret from my whole situation is not getting the legal stuff started sooner. It’s been 3.5 years of sheer hell.
I didn’t want the divorce, so I didn’t push it. And his actions bit me in the butt, hugely.
But ginger is right.. him not working puts you at financial risk... you are married... his mess is your mess.

With that said... you’re still doing a good job with 180s and self reflection. Keep that up. The legal/divorce is strictly business.