I made a mistake tonight when my W dropped off our son. I pursued.
I talked to her about our doctor friend suggesting that she suffered from some postpartum depression. I asked my W what she thought and she said "I don't want to diagnose myself" and "I don't think that would change anything".
I suggested that it was possible that with postpartum and then things going on with her dad it would be difficult to want to connect with me and if we found out that there were some external factors at play then that might open the door for us to rebuild our connection.
She said "yeah, I don't know".
As she was leaving she invited me to valentines day dinner at her parents with her brother and his girlfriend. She said maybe I could switch my work schedule around to make it work.
Anyways - how badly did I mess up tonight in asking her about this?
H 37 W 31 S 2
T: 7 M: 4
BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019
