big emotionally day for you then. At least you have an opportunity to work things out it sounds like... I Would love to be able to have that option .
We can’t be so sure that we have an opportunity to work things out. I’m not putting stock into that at the moment. Emotions are way too high. I left for 2 days to put some space between us and to be kind to my body. I got a message, I had dinner with a girlfriend. However, while I was away my H filled his mind with all sorts of thoughts. I’m serious when I say he lost his sh@t. He thought I was with another man (rolling my eyes).
He hasn’t slept much in 2 days. He’s passed out as we speak.
So based on the situation at the time, I can’t trust what he says. My H has been all over the place for months. I’m not trying to dismiss his feelings or say he was lying to me. I’m just not sure about his motive at the moment.
I think we both need to take a few days, let our emotions calm down, and then maybe see what the next move is.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
