So she replied to my email about visits.

H: the judge did not authorize mid week visits. I offered a mid week visit to make up for not seeing them this weekend due to weather. We will obtain the court documents this week to ensure you are following them. W.

I want to send a stern email back about her controlling my time with the kids and me not getting much input. She didn’t ask me when I was available instead only told me when I could see them, take it or leave it style. I want to see the kids but I don’t want to give into her controlling methods to limit my contact with the kids to when it’s convenient for her either.

I want to say that ‘W, your continued attempts to isolate me from the kids by not asking for my inputs are unnecessary and not in the best interest of the kids. If necessary I will re-petition the court via my L for mid week visits. H’. Something to that effect.

I haven’t even seen the temp orders yet, I am fairly certain I get to review them and sign them before they are filed. I have emailed my L to ask about all of this.


Me40; W38; S12; D9
BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18
D Final 7/2020
Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.