Get ready for him to want to R talk when you get home. Just listen and validate and agree.
H:"Bla bla ba bla"
W:"I can see where you are coming from"
I understand you feel that way It must be hard to feel that way I agree, this is not working for me either. I want us both to be happy. I am sorry. I cant change the past.
I see many solutions to our issues. We both need to work on our communication skills. I am not sure. I need time to think about what you are saying. What you said.
I am not sure how I feel about that.
You said you wanted to get divorced. I don't think that is the solution to our problems, but I am willing to give you what you want so you can be happy.
Get as many of the responses into your head.
You can handle this.
HUGS
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
