That's tough for me to say right now, because it hasn't run its course. That's what you say when it's all over. We are barely started in this.
You are telling HER this. You are agreeing (Validating) with her. In her mind, it has ran it's course. You "hear" her and "understand" her.
I see. I thought that was what you were proposing we tell our friends that ‘it’s run it’s course’ and leave it at that. It’s important that they have a decent idea of the dynamic and what truthfully happened without the gory details.
Me40; W38; S12; D9 BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18 D Final 7/2020 Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.