Phoenix, I love that post! It's amazing man, you were working every day, taking small steps that lead to big change. Imagine where you'll be in another 6 months...
I had my breakthrough back in August when women were talking to me and I felt just like you do. It feels great.
Detachment and emotions are funny. They come and go. You continue to work on it though. Just yesterday I got a bit emotional, but for the most part I'm fine and I shut that down quickly. My W even commented that it doesn't seem like I care. But I just had to remind her that this just doesn't hurt like it used to, that my heart was crushed on BD/OM discovery and I slowly got tired of her crap.
Meetup is nice it just helps get people out of the house and make friends and live their lives. I'm glad you are enjoying your life b/c you should be happy. How's your little girl?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.