Into the Fire (LB55 thread 2)

[LB55]

I sent W an email yesterday about business stuff.

In court she said that she deals with all the financial stuff and mortgage payments. Court said that should remain during the temp orders. She stated she had to get new car insurance because I cancelled hers by informing my insurer that she had filed for divorce. They made her a permissive user on my policy. The only things this changes is she can’t buy a new car, rent a car, or loan her car to someone. All other coverages remained the same.

Yesterday I cancelled the autopay for the mortgages and forwarded the confirmation numbers to her, and I said that she should have no problem figuring out how to set up the autopay from her account. (I left out the smart comment about how she supposedly had been doing it all anyway)

I also asked for proof of the insurance so I can actually remove her from my policy since she told the court she already has her own. I don’t think we need double coverage on the car she drives. I said I will not cancel it until I receive positive confirmation from her that she is covered. Haven’t received anything yet.

Also stated my position on visits. Since I wasn’t able to visit them this weekend due to weather she proposed a weekday visit; which is fine, but then went on to say that the normal weekend visits would resume on the 23rd and implied that the only reason for a weekday visit was to make up for a missed weekend. I informed her that the judge didn’t say weekday visits were a replacement for weekends, he said that they were authorized in addition to the weekends. I said that we need to agree each week on a mid week visit in addition to the scheduled weekend visits. Again no reply.