Originally Posted by LB55
That's tough for me to say right now, because it hasn't run its course. That's what you say when it's all over. We are barely started in this.
You are telling HER this. You are agreeing (Validating) with her. In her mind, it has ran it's course. You "hear" her and "understand" her.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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