Still foggy, still going (Phoenix9 DB XI)

[Adam04]

Good job P.

Can you replace other women with something else and not want to be with W?

I picture Tarzan about to swing from branch to branch here.

Give yourself some time. It's great you are feeling the euphoria. You're on that emotional high ppl are saying that is addictive for the WAS.

I think it was R2C or maybe AS who said that the difference between a WAS and a WW is that the WW is weak and needs OM to leave. The WAS usually has had enough and is stronger so can leave without OM. With that and that the LBS usually follows behind the WAS, I want to caution you on this part. I think it's great you have found your MOJO. Just don't replace your W with another woman before moving on. (I saw Steve quote someone about being with two women , I think it was on Dids thread)

Also, I saw a post, think it was here earlier about other women being attracted vs WW being disrespectful. Forgot who commented on that but it was brief and made me think. Other women are attracted because they don't really know us yet. They haven't been living with us for years to know our bad habits. I hope we don't forget the work that needs to be put into ourselves and think that because someone is new, that things will automatically be better, while we are most likely close to the same or more guarded than before.

I know I sound like a Debbie Downer. I don't want you to crash when you're by yourself and there's no one else around and think something is wrong because you thought you had detached. This is really a great stride in the right direction. Live P and enjoy life.