My H was the same. He wanted to be up under me 24/7. I had been in relationships in the past where my s/o was very emotionally distant. So it flattered me that my H wanted to be with me all the time. However by doing so, he lost sight of who he was as an individual. Now he feels like he doesn’t know who he is as a person. We very rearely went on dates. And that was one of the big issues I had in the M. I felt like my emotional needs weren’t being met. I addressed this with my H. He would plan a date and then it was back to business as usual.
Last edited by Living; 02/10/1912:24 AM.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
