A or no A she is being told by everyone how screwed up she is and it has driven her into a deeper depression. I’m her safety blanket, I see that is why she is acting this way.
This is what I fear the most going forward...my W figuring out what she has done, and going into deep depression. She has been there before, and had a suicide attempt before we were together.
Such a fine line between nice guy co-dependent care taking/rescuing behaviors and genuinely being there In a time of need for her no matter how much pain she caused.
Me40; W38; S12; D9 BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18 D Final 7/2020 Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.
