It does hurt, i know people here will say dont listen to it blah blah blah but it still CUTS DEEP. My w told me all that I cant be the man she needs me to be ever etc etc. looking back she realizes she was never happy blah blah blah. Just like you said THEY DESERVE an oscar award cause she could have fooled me as well...
I’m sorry to hear that your wife said these things to you. It does hurt and we aren’t robots and unlike him I’m not capable of acting as if things don’t bother me. It’s obvious he has communication problems. He chose to keep the issues he was having with the M inside rather than address them. How can a person know what the problem is if you won’t tell them?
Why would a person just stay in a M they knew they weren’t happy in?
There were things that we were both unhappy with regarding the M. The things that he initially told me he had a problem with, I tried to fix. At least I can honestly say I freaking tried. He didn’t.
I should also add that he’s says there is no reason to rush into a D. That he wants us to wait until we both will be ok financially. He wants to be able to keep me on his medical insurance. So we don’t have to rush. However he claims he will leave me alone and we can just live like roommates.
He said but he doesn’t understand why we can’t go out to dinner or a movie from time to time because we are still married.
He’s been calling and texting off and on all night and now through the day. He wants to know whew I’m at and who I’m with. I haven’t responded.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
