My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance PART 6

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My W wanted to talk about going back to a joint checking account. She says it's not fair that I make more money than her. OK.

But she hasn't been wearing her ring for several days the last 2 weeks. She says it doesn't feel like a real marriage bc of all the crap, but mainly bc how I treated her. And I saw today she has snap chat again so I told that makes me mad bc she said she'd get rid of it to help rebuild trust. Those were 2 of my boundaries when she came back again on Christmas. So I got out of bed and told her I can't comfort her anymore. So tired of this game.

She wants a full commitment from me without a full commitment from her.

I'm going out with friends tonight.

Not really emotionally wound up anymore. I'm about out of gas for this woman. And if we get divorced I don't even care b/c I'm going to be making good money, I'm good looking, in better shape that 99% of men my age. I can find someone and I have learned so much about who I am and what I want that I know I can do better than this crap.