OK so you are 20 (or close) years experience E10, plus married plus kids plus rental properties. Good for you. Still $7,300 a month support is outrageous but I don't know how that works.

I wouldn't want to sell investments for her spending money either.

The revenge statement is big. Eventually you won't even give a crap about her. If you throw her under the bus, then she'll realize she can hurt you and she will continue to try to do that. Take away her power, show her that you won't let her hurt you anymore. No need to throw her under the bus, everyone will see that on their own and they'll see you taking the high road. If you hear lies, you can set it straight but no need to put your business out there yet.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.